A proposal is a very significant moment in a couple’s life and so it should be memorable. If you are ready to pop the big question, you need to figure out the best way to make your proposal very special.
Since even if the bride already has a hint, most proposals are planned as surprises. Go all out planning the surprise, to ensure it is a pleasant one. Think about what your spouse would treasure for a lifetime. You want to make sure that every time her girlfriends ask her, “So, how did he propose?” she answers with enthusiasm.
So what have you got in mind? Do you want to go for a hike and propose to her at the peak of a mountain? Maybe surprise her on her birthday when she is with friends and family? Devise a plan that works for you. I am sure she will say yes!
Let us look at romantic and realistic ways in which you can propose to your spouse.
Planning for the Proposal
Anyone who has proposed before will tell you that this is a truly personal moment. Whether the lady says yes or not, it takes a lot of courage to get down on one knee and ask that million-dollar question.
Many who have not proposed before think that since they are in a committed relationship, the proposal will be a piece of cake. This is not the same as getting a promise ring for your girlfriend. Asking the big question means you are ready to spend the rest of your life with this person.
Now if you are like me, then I bet waking up to the same face every morning can be a little crazy. It is exciting, no doubt, but I bet you can feel fear creep in too, especially if you are used to having your house to yourself.
If you want to get it right, you should consider adopting a tried and tested romantic way of proposing. This does not mean that you should refrain from throwing in a little creativity. By all means, go big or go home. However, note that going to great heights should not include putting you or your spouse’s life at risk. Safety should be an utmost priority.
You should also make sure you are safe because the last thing the world needs is for you to harm yourself because you tried something a bit too creative.
The planning of the proposal should be very personal because it is not like a birthday party that anyone can attend. Remember not to confuse diamond promise rings with diamond engagement rings. Be sure to involve a professional jeweler so that you get the right ring.
Since pulling off the perfect proposal can feel like a lot of pressure, you should ask your friends to help you come up with the best plan. You could also ask your girlfriend’s best friend to tell you what your partner would like.
Outdoor Proposal Ideas
If your girlfriend is an outdoors person, you should consider proposing outdoors. Make sure you take your girl to a place that is significantly meaningful to your love story. For instance, if the first time you saw her, she was in a park, the park would be an excellent place to propose.
If you are planning to involve friends and family, make sure that your plan is well coordinated. Choose the most scenic place to go down on one knee because the ambiance will have a huge impact on the experience. No woman wants to be proposed to next to a dumpster.
When planning an outdoor proposal, you should let nature do its thing. Nature’s beauty can never be underestimated. Also, remember to check the weather forecast to figure out the best day to be outdoors.
Artsy and Creative Ideas
Now that you have got an engagement ring for your girlfriend, it is about time you fulfill the promises you made to her. There are so many artsy and creative ideas for proposing to the love of your life.
If she loves art, she will appreciate the simplest gesture. If you are not artistic, you should seek help from a professional. Although you may have a strong urge to do everything on your own, relax a bit and let others help you. This will help you get it right especially if you have not planned everything to perfection.
There are so many ways to go about planning a proposal without sacrificing your imagination. Working with experts ensures that your vision comes to life.
Involving Friends, Family and even Pets
If your spouse comes from a closely-knit family, it would be a bad idea to not involve her family. Involving her support system shows that you really know her properly and you mean it when you say you want to start a family with her.
As a spouse, the last thing you should insinuate is that you will pull your girl away from her family after the two of you get married. Separate families can co-exist without one interfering with the other’s oneness.
A lady who is extra close to her family will want them to present when the love of her life proposes to her. Going this route is a surefire way of making sure your girlfriend always remembers the day. It is also an excellent way of getting her parents’ blessings as you move on to the next level of your relationship.
As you can see, proposing is not something you wake up and do one morning. There is a lot of planning that goes into a proposal, to make it memorable. Make sure you find out what your girlfriend would love from friends and family before you get down on one knee.